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Someone I recently started dating flew home to be with their family

And their grandma died. I obviously believe them but I barely hear from them anymore, which is understandable since that's a huge thing to happen. But like, do I sit and wait for her? Or just move on? I'm really interested in her and really want something to happen, but I can't force it. I texted her to check in 3 days ago and she responded favorably but that she's been busy and spending much more time with her family.

We were texting kinda regularly after she went home but it dried up almost completely after she lost her grandma. It's been a week since then. And we matched on a dating app a month ago.
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Flowerz · 36-40, F
I would find that kinda strange but I am not super close with family. It sounds like from other replies that it is normal. Good luck either way. :)
somedude15 · 26-30, M
@Flowerz yeah I wasn't close with my grandparents either, not even close to my dad. So I feel you too. But I don't know enough about her and how close she is to her family- and so I just want to assume that she's being honest and really just needs time. Mentally I'm preparing myself to move on though. Dating is hard lol.