Someone I recently started dating flew home to be with their family

And their grandma died. I obviously believe them but I barely hear from them anymore, which is understandable since that's a huge thing to happen. But like, do I sit and wait for her? Or just move on? I'm really interested in her and really want something to happen, but I can't force it. I texted her to check in 3 days ago and she responded favorably but that she's been busy and spending much more time with her family.

We were texting kinda regularly after she went home but it dried up almost completely after she lost her grandma. It's been a week since then. And we matched on a dating app a month ago.

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PrettyFlamingos · F Best Comment

Her Grandma died just one week ago? I think you are lucky she has made time to text you, families need to pull together in times like that. If you really like and care for her, you’ll give her a little space and time

somedude15 · 26-30, M

@PrettyFlamingos yeah that's exactly what I thought, thanks. I was just kind of apprehensive because we've only been talking for a month

PrettyFlamingos · F

@somedude15 It’s only natural, I hope you find reassurance very soon and your girl keeps in touch. You seem a great guy and ty for Best Comment 🦩😊

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@somedude15 If it is meant to be it will work out. remember she home and has many thing and people to deal with so be patent . Maybe send her a text saying something like " Hi hope things are okay I was just thinking of you and if you need to talk I am here" .