Step daughter’s graduation

A few weeks ago it was my step daughter’s graduation and the graduation ball. I was not invited. GF chose to not bring me and her ex did not bring anyone. I am fine with that. Although, nothing was said to me about it. I was simply told. Daughter’s graduation, you won’t see me that weekend. I thought it was weird. I can’t even tell you what my GF wore. I was not talked about anything even as a conversation, excitement for the graduation. Nothing. So this morning I see a picture on my step daughter’s dresser of the graduation. My GF had her wedding bands on. Is that weird??

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REMsleep · 41-45, F

Dude is this a joke? I am a staunch advocate for working it out, understanding your partner and marriage but there are 25 waving red flags in your story.
From the little bit of info here I'd say that she has no respect for you. Maybe if I knew more I could try to understand.
If you are not in a serious relationship then I understand not being invited but not the wedding band.

Jammy · 51-55, M

@REMsleep that is how I saw it. No respect.

REMsleep · 41-45, F

@Jammy You are not wrong. I am a woman and I say she has no respect for you nor your relationship. So Sorry that this is what it is.