What’s a nice way of letting someone know that you don’t want to make out forever?
Or maybe we just need to find the right rhythm. We just started hanging out so maybe it will sort itself out without me having to say something.
36-40, M
SW-User
Just let them know you're not looking for anything serious. It's better to be upfront so they don't get their heart tangled into it.
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SW-User
@Reflective Your post mentions something to do with forever. Not my projection, your wording.
Reflective · 36-40, M
Forever is not meant to be taken literally @SW-User
SW-User
@Reflective Without knowing you or your personality, I would take your words seriously and literally. How am I meant to know something is said flippantly?
But we're really extending this more than it's worth.
Sorry you did not like what I said.
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But we're really extending this more than it's worth.
Sorry you did not like what I said.
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Reflective · 36-40, M
@Vivaci haha true, I do need to work on it don’t I
Northwest · M
What’s forever? Third date?
Reflective · 36-40, M
Like a couple minutes, and then soon after a couple more minutes, to a point where I snap out of the intoxication of kissing and start thinking, ok this is going on for too long lol. 2nd date.
Northwest · M
@Reflective Really? I enjoy prolonged makeout sessions. With the right person, they put me in a trance.
Nebula · 41-45, F
But I do want to make out forever
Reflective · 36-40, M
@Nebula lol I think I might too, once we find a rhythm. Just seems like they are going to fast and not paying attention to my lips lol. Just jumping in there
stratosranger · M
Pass ‘em a bottle of the good stuff
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SW-User
Yikes. You shouldn't be forcing yourself to be kissing someone when you don't want to
Reflective · 36-40, M
SW-User
@Reflective It is still important things move at your own pace 🤗