I don't know why I am so attracted to strong women

@DeWayfarer Wanting someone else controlling your actions is something very wrong. I wouldn't want someone like that!

@SweetguyTO I could guarantee there wasn't a boring moment with her! Full of life.

Yet control was what she wanted. Not being beaten up which was her previous husband that I and others chased out of state.

She ended up with a lifetime military guy. That's the type of control she wanted.

She just didn't want to make decisions. So she became some what wild when it was up to herself which took hours.

Conversation: where do you want to go?

I don't know.

Ok let's go to the Inn.

...

Two hours later she was going up and down elevators. I won't say doing what. 🤣

She wanted me say no. Therefore controlling her.

I never once denied her when she finally made up her mind.

"I'm going skinny dipping in a the Inn's pool."

Me! Ok!

That got us both kicked out for a couple of months. 🤣

@ShadowWolf Ahhh!! That explains all the foot prints!! Lol🤣

@SweetguyTO You can't use logic with women. Even Stephen Hawking said "Women, they are a complete mystery".

@ShadowWolf Steven was a very smart guy!! May he rest in peace!!

@ShadowWolf Yes, I am always scared to lose. I am scared to be alone. When I get a women interested, I hang on for dear life.

@SweetguyTO Which is exactly why your relationships keep failing... even with a submissive girl, that mentality will drive them away.

@ShadowWolf Somehow i need to get over this! So hard!

@SweetguyTO Self love is any happiness you can create for yourself, by yourself, as yourself. This way to do it this different for everyone, but it typically involves taking care of four things.

Emotional needs are your hearts desires. Anything you want for yourself.

Spiritual needs are your purpose. Anything you want for others.

Physical needs are your body. Maintaining health through diet and exercise.

Finally your mental needs are knowledge and learning. Reading or trying new things.

Again, we all achieve this in our own unique way, but do so and then when you approach people (dominant ones especially) from a place of want rather than need and they’ll find you more attractive as a potential partner. The hardest part is having to do this on your own.

@Reject That's a lot to take in, let alone accomplish. I will have to work on this. Not going to be easy!

@SweetguyTO Indeed, it’s a lifelong journey for most of us, but it’s one worth taking. Only good can come from any progress you make in it.

@smiler2012 Not sure how to make a plan B. At leasr i know where i stand with a dominant woman, but with a non dominant woman, how do I know she wants me, not just giving in to what I want. Essentially, forcing my wants on her and her saying ok to me even though she doesn't want to.

@SweetguyTO well which is worse of the two evils that is what you have too work out . one one hand you dominant woman who you have found out from many experience does not work . or the other option is take a gamble and journey into the unknown . if you want too find true happiness this maybe a chance you need to take . it may mean more hurt but you have a little bit better odd of finding the right one for you

@smiler2012 The problem is to actually find one. It's so hard to meet women these days. Nothing but rejection, no replay to messages and ghosting!

@empanadas Guess so