Serious Question with disclaimer (Sorry necessary here)

Asking the fellas what character traits do you like to see in a gal?
Sassy or sweet? Girlish or tomboy?
Classy or not so classy?
What traits do you find unattractive?
If you can , please explain why you like or hate those traits?

Please nothing about appearance or anything sexual, not asking that question.

I want to know what attracts you from a personality point of view and what repels you . Long term relationship status.

I want to be a keeper to my fella and am seeking out male opinions.

Thanks
Rae

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BigAssLeech · 31-35, M

Everyone will have a different answer obviously. It depends on what they want from the relationship. One of the main things I find attractive is passion; for a specific cause, a hobby, an interest, whatever. I think it's so fun to be able to talk to someone about these things and see how they light up and get excited about discussing them. Kindness towards people and other living things is also a very important trait to me. If someone is passionate, kind, and has a compatible sense of humor to mine, I don't really care about much else. Traits I find repulsive should be pretty obvious. Unnecessary meanness, cruelty. Things like that

Ultimately tho, regardless of men's opinions, you should just be yourself. You shouldn't adhere to what a man wants to be considered a keeper. Just find a man who likes you as you are

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@BigAssLeech I find that if bitter and unhappy about everything that might be being yourself ,but it's hardly going to make anyone want you.
The problem with individuality, no matter how rotten that individual is, they're not too many people that are going to keep taking certain personality traits at the expense of themselves.
Nothing wrong with changing if it makes me a better person and if there are certain things guys like that are not unreasonable and I don't find it a burden to do those things I still believe I'm being myself.