Feeling conflicted
Was on a late night call with a girl I'm dating last night
She was extremely sleepy and apparently got a bit too honest which I didn't mind, but some of the things she said hurt me
She talked about me having to conform to her timezone, and how staying up late isn't sustainable for her (understandable) but she sounded as if it was becoming a burden for her to stay up late and was a little rude/mean about it
She also mentioned about the fun she's going to have on a trip she goes on next week, and talked about how she likes doing an eye-contact thing with random guys in public but she definitely won't act on any of it
The one that really hurt was that she mentioned how she was thinking about this time last year, how she used to go on a lot of dates which were fun- and now she's committing to someone who's far away but she doesn't want to stop having fun. And I'm not sure if I heard this right but it sounded like she was saying just because she's committed doesn't mean she can't stop going out on fun dates
Is this enough for me to start to reconsider dating her, or am I overreacting?
This morning (few minutes ago) she just sent me a text saying that she's sorry for her ill mannered rant last night and she's really sorry I had to see her that way.
I don't even know how to respond or how to feel right now.
She was extremely sleepy and apparently got a bit too honest which I didn't mind, but some of the things she said hurt me
She talked about me having to conform to her timezone, and how staying up late isn't sustainable for her (understandable) but she sounded as if it was becoming a burden for her to stay up late and was a little rude/mean about it
She also mentioned about the fun she's going to have on a trip she goes on next week, and talked about how she likes doing an eye-contact thing with random guys in public but she definitely won't act on any of it
The one that really hurt was that she mentioned how she was thinking about this time last year, how she used to go on a lot of dates which were fun- and now she's committing to someone who's far away but she doesn't want to stop having fun. And I'm not sure if I heard this right but it sounded like she was saying just because she's committed doesn't mean she can't stop going out on fun dates
Is this enough for me to start to reconsider dating her, or am I overreacting?
This morning (few minutes ago) she just sent me a text saying that she's sorry for her ill mannered rant last night and she's really sorry I had to see her that way.
I don't even know how to respond or how to feel right now.
22-25, M
