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Meeting a girl I've been talking to long distance for two months in person tomorrow. What are some things to address?

We've known each other for a year, but actually ramped up flirting/talking like two/three months ago. I'm meeting her in person for the first time tomorrow.

I guess exclusivity is assumed, but should I still bring it up? I'm also not sure how soon is to sson to become official (actual "boyfriend/girlfriend"). I'm not toooooo experienced with dating but I don't think I'm clueless either.


Logistics of somewhat regular travel to see each other and if both of us are okay with that


Religion/faith, future career/life plans, thoughts on marriage, kids, etc. Is it too soon? Should I focus on enjoying our first "dates" (I'll be there for 5 days) and then have the more serious talks the next time we see? She's on the other side of the country so travel is expensive, I anticipate we'll probably meet in person like every 2-3 months.

We're both 23 turning 24 this year if that helps/matters.
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Helloeveryone · 56-60, F
Im sure it will work out...