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Would you still date her?

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Let's say you meet a beautiful, fun women and so far you guys get along but you find out she got pregnant at 15. The guy left and she gave the child to her older sister. Her older sister has taken care of the child for the last 12 years

Would you still date her or leave?
I'm not even part of the personal responsibility crowd but especially when it comes to sex it's like we act like its easy to own responsibility in that regard and that since contraceptives are cheap and affordable that there's no valid excuse but I mean lifes unpredictable and who knows your partner even has a fucking condom when you're in the mood? I think sex is more unplanned and unpredictable than the personal responsibility crowd likes to pretend it is and so I'm not sure what there even is to forgive her for here. and how many of us are even militantly inflexible in that kind of situation?

So I'd stay.
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Why would you leave?! She could have done horrible things after the baby was born, but chose to give life and probably a better one at that!
masterofyou · 70-79, M
What is the past got to do with two people dating everyone makes mistakes when you are just a child everyone has a past and did things that were bad decisions....
Tonydang · M
I wouldn’t hold it against her she was young and probably not ready for such commitments she did the right thing by the child
masterofyou · 70-79, M
I wonder if that little girl was you..
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I should've gone with "other" I'm not in the situation so anything I say is an assumption. I know a woman like that. I couldn't say if I'd date her or not, we're related and rarely see each other
exexec · 61-69, C
I am a naturally forgiving person, and I would certainly forgive someone for something they did when they were 15. I assume they were as stupid as I was back then.
Doomflower · 36-40, M
She's almost twice as old as when she had the kid and if she is a human she's grown up a lot in the last 12 years. I'd stay.
SW-User
To be a step dad is a big role and one would have to accept that when being with her
Thetinydog · 26-30, F
@SW-User she's not getting the kid back.
Bang5luts · M
The 15 year old? Who is now 27?

 
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