Would I be a bad girlfriend if I went out alone?

I don’t have any single friends . Everyone is super married .
My boyfriend is a single dad and can’t /won’t leave his 15 year old daughter alone at home even for a few hours to go anywhere and we almost spend all out together time at his house .
Any suggestions ?

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CookieCrumbs · F

I would say go out by yourself and meet new people. I’ve always been a promoter of solo travel (diff city/diff country even). The experience can make you discover more about yourself.

The fact that you realized that you need more in your life (socializing with friends and doing other fun activities aside from babysitting a 15-yr old), this tells you to rethink your future prospects with your bf.

You have to either accept this will be the life he can offer you should you decide to stay long term with him.

Or you can make an honest choice what kind of relationship you really want for yourself.

There would be nothing wrong with his family arrangements it that is what you want for yourself too.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@CookieCrumbs
Wise words .
Thank you 🙂

CookieCrumbs · F

@Niloo
Life is short. Do what will make your life meaningful and happy.