Would I be a bad girlfriend if I went out alone?

I don’t have any single friends . Everyone is super married .
My boyfriend is a single dad and can’t /won’t leave his 15 year old daughter alone at home even for a few hours to go anywhere and we almost spend all out together time at his house .
Any suggestions ?

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BlueVeins · 22-25

Your happiness matters too, and it's really, really normal to wanna get out of the damn house from time to time. If I were you, I'd talk to him about going out alone in the least confrontational way possible. I find it really, really weird that he's not willing to leave his daughter alone at that age. Do you know why he's like that? If she doesn't have some kind of disability or behavioral problem, that kinda screams trauma to me.

Niloo · 46-50, F

@BlueVeins
She has been through a lot ..
I do underhand that

BlueVeins · 22-25

@Niloo At that age though, he's almost certainly hurting her development by not giving her independence. It's probably bad to press the issue though.