Do you believe, when starting a relationship, that it’s important to meet someone who is healed and in a great place?

I don't know anyone who isn't in need of healing.
We ALL carry our own crosses.
My awesome husband has helped heal me by loving me sooo fine!

My husband and i both found each other at our worst and i honestly think it made us stronger, better.

For me, it's about the person and the connection. If they are healing and need extra TLC that's OK, I just see that as part of the relationship between us.

Yes ...
Be with someone who has their shit together..someone who meets you at where you're at ...not a project

In my experience, being able to offer someone some help is a great way to start bonding. It does however come with a risk that they leave you once they are in a good enough place to not need your help anymore.

Nobody's perfect. Plus I like to feel I am not the only one with problems.

Thank you! Take care and stay healthy and enjoy your life.

It depends. If I feel like I am in a good and strong place to support another person, then I am definitely happy to be with them. But I would prefer that they were open with their problems, instead of just bottling them up (which I think a lot of men tend to do).

But if I am in a bad place, I don't want to be around other people in a relationship setting. I have been in the past and I was not a stable or good partner. Adding another person who is also in a bad place, is kind of a scary situation.