What do you think about non-monogamy?

@PDXNative1986 Thank you for contributing. I appreciate your voice in this conversation.

@ShadowSister It's not been as easy for me honestly to even get someone to take a chance on me romantically I guess because a lot of the women I like have been toyed with by men so god damn much. Trust issues abound and never really did resolve themselves leaving me forced to ultimately move on, and I did it's just it didn't happen overnight or quickly.

I do though want to scream sometimes because you know when you become feminist everyone be like that's sus you must just want that pussy and it's like

I fell in love with a girl, my mother's was abused in every sense of the word by her father I grew up on those tales I'm the youngest of THREE I've already watched women I care about being burried in the ground gone too soon and so it's like if you want to know why this stuff is why I care.

Women are people too, and sometimes I think the better half of humanity.

@PDXNative1986 My personal feeling is that people who benefit from systems of oppression probably shouldn't be trumpeting their allyship. I do my best to be an ally to my friends of color. But if I was to tell them I am an ally, I would expect that would appear sus. If I'm really an ally, it should be obvious with my actions. If I have to tell them with my words, I probably need to find ways to be a better ally.

It's hard though in relationships in general right now. it's not easy for anyone to find the right partners.

@ShadowSister Words are but wind, but I am a donor to jane's due process which you could look into and The girl scouts. There's also a feminist charity trying to inspire more women to become musicians run by Antigone rising a women's band, I support them too.

@PDXNative1986 Very cool