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Salinanana · 22-25, F
would allow them to vent as needed, but encourage them to fix the things that bother them.
IrishFellaShaney · 41-45, M
@Salinanana And if that didn't work? and it went on and on ?
Salinanana · 22-25, F
@IrishFellaShaney well some people don't understand they have a problem until it's made clear to them. Would put distance between me and them.
IrishFellaShaney · 41-45, M
@Salinanana Oh I know that. I just meant if your efforts failed, and they persisted on complaining about how things are never going to change and how bad their life is. Would you stay with them if they were loyal to you? out of obligation?
Salinanana · 22-25, F
@IrishFellaShaney I'm not sure about a relationship, but if they have something like depression i would try to help in some way. if they were just overly dependent then I think me leaving would be hard but good for them. sometimes certain connections are the problem.