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Salinanana · 22-25, F
would allow them to vent as needed, but encourage them to fix the things that bother them.
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Salinanana · 22-25, F
@IrishFellaShaney well some people don't understand they have a problem until it's made clear to them. Would put distance between me and them.
IrishFellaShaney · 41-45, M
@Salinanana Oh I know that. I just meant if your efforts failed, and they persisted on complaining about how things are never going to change and how bad their life is. Would you stay with them if they were loyal to you? out of obligation?
Salinanana · 22-25, F
@IrishFellaShaney I'm not sure about a relationship, but if they have something like depression i would try to help in some way. if they were just overly dependent then I think me leaving would be hard but good for them. sometimes certain connections are the problem.
ZombiesAteMyArm · 41-45, M
Nope
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
I stayed too long with one who blamed me for all the things he found wrong as well.
IrishFellaShaney · 41-45, M
@Starcrossed Even if it wasn't somebody though who blamed you for everything gone wrong, but generally just complained a lot about what's going wrong for them. Would you stay?
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@IrishFellaShaney now that I'm older and more secure in aloneness, I very possibly wouldn't stay. There'd have to be a lot of love to keep me there
Fluffybull · F
No
depends if they are drowning me in it too and how it effects my mental health.
IrishFellaShaney · 41-45, M
@deathfairy Well yeah, to the point I mean where it affects you. Like where you come home are like, what kind of mood is he/she in today ..
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
But... I want her to moan. Like at least twice a day! 😏
IrishFellaShaney · 41-45, M
@FeetAreFantastic You know what I meant . lol
FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M
@IrishFellaShaney Yes I know. To answer seriously: yes I think I would stay.
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