My suspicions were right !

I had a feeling for months that my boyfriend was cheating on me .. and I was right. Recently found evidence on his phone. The girls name was saved as a contact in a guys name !! I called that b*%$h. And she denied everything .. I know the difference.. I seen messages and FaceTime calls to each other. My heart is broken into a million pieces .. I cannot believe I'm dealing with this again. My ex cheated on me. Took me forever to get over it and move on. And here I am again .. what's next ? Do I forgive and forget ? I don't think I will ever trust him again now :( I uprooted my life from hometown almost 5 years Ago. Left everything behind .. if I walk out now. I have basically nothing. Not even a car to drive .. my life is falling apart 💔. I don't see a way out. Yet !! If I stay. It'll drive me crazy ! I don't think he has her number deleted off his phone. .. that can only mean one thing !? So broken 😞

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Graylight · 51-55, F

You didn't trust him to begin with to invade his privacy. And now he has little reason to trust you.

If the truth is out, it's time to sit down calmly and confront the issue; semi-public would be advisable. If no defense will do for you, then don't entertain any excuses. If you want to talk about it, come ready to listen and respond. Not [i]react[/i].

And here's the last problem; no one should enter a relationship until they can emotionally and financially stand on their own. Most all relationships end - it's just a matter of numbers. With no reserves, you suddenly become trapped.

This is truly awful for you, but you survived the last time; you'll survive this, too. It's okay to feel the anger, the pain, the depression, the loss, all of it. But protect your heart and reach out - no doubt there are people in your life who'll help any way they can. Follow your heart, follow your instinct and wait for this storm to pass. Hoping the Universe holds you tightly....