Transference Older Woman - Younger Man have you been there?

Poll - Total Votes: 14

Ladies would you enter into a relationship with a 20+ year age gap?

Yes just for the experience

Yes I would take it seriously

No I wouldnt

Guys would you see your age gap relationship 20yrs + as just fun ?

Guys would you see your age gap relationship 20yrs + as long term / serious?

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Age gap relationships , where there is an age gap of 20 years or more.

Is it just ..what it is ?
Or are there real mummy / son issues involved?

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Jeephikelove · 46-50, F

I haven’t yet but have been approached by way younger men, one has been pursuing me for 2 years, he’s 22 years younger. I’m just not attracted to him though. Sometimes I think that’s the way to go, men my age, if they’re single, are angry or just in the thought of I’m only doing casual for now on.

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@Jeephikelove if your not attracted to him ..it wouldn't work anyhow. Aside from that 22 years is a huge gap.

However I know of couples where it has worked. Like any serious relationship it comes down to both having essential needs met .

I recently remarried and my husband is 17 years younger than me.

Two years ago, I entered the dating scene and reluctantly at first, began for the first time relating with younger men

This persuaded me , That indeed I could take an age gap relationship serious. Prior to that I would have taken a lot of convincing.

In any case , as are getting to know each other , we would sensibly expect most new relationships to be casual.

However for me once I realise that I am serious about a man , I would then without wasting any time prefer to marry over dating.

It's the highest level of commitment two people can enjoy . Why continuously 'date' when you can both enjoy the very best your relationship can offer

Jeephikelove · 46-50, F

@Kae20 congratulations on your recent marriage. 🎉