Transference Older Woman - Younger Man have you been there?

Poll - Total Votes: 14

Ladies would you enter into a relationship with a 20+ year age gap?

Yes just for the experience

Yes I would take it seriously

No I wouldnt

Guys would you see your age gap relationship 20yrs + as just fun ?

Guys would you see your age gap relationship 20yrs + as long term / serious?

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Age gap relationships , where there is an age gap of 20 years or more.

Is it just ..what it is ?
Or are there real mummy / son issues involved?

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SomeMichGuy · M

When I was 21, the women who saw me as amazing, talented, etc., and liked my shyness were older. But ~17 yrs.

Not about mommy, about differential peaks on the physical side, and better insight/discernment on the life experience side.

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@SomeMichGuy She was 17 yrs older than you , so tech I 'm inclinded to agree it there may have been nothing more in it , other than what youve identified.

SomeMichGuy · M

@Kae20 I have never had any [i]eros[/i] interest in my mother. lol

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@SomeMichGuy likely not because the age gap between you both wasnt wide enough for her to be a mother figure.

Had it been 20 + yrs , I would have been inclinded to think buried mummy issues 🙂

SomeMichGuy · M

@Kae20 You can think what you like, but the coincidence of hormone peaks and the older women seeing my potential more than explain it.

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

@SomeMichGuy hun I was agreeing with you.

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

Also there was something you said

[quote] and liked my shyness/quote]

Has me thinking that ..maybe one the reasons why some older women are attracted to teenage boys is that - they might see them as being less threatening than older adult males.

Perhaps theyve had bad or difficult experiences with grown males. So then find a young boy much more easier to handle 🤔

Its just a thought ..I could be way off . Having said this there is no excuse for encouraging a relationship with a boy who is under the age of consent. Which in the UK is 16yrs .