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Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
My 1st grade teacher, she was a tall brunette with long legs and the bluest eyes you have ever seen. She was absolutely gorgeous. She got married to a guy with my same last name and it was torture calling her Mrs. XXXXX for the last few weeks of the 1st grade. I have to say I am over it and much better off, she was really much too old for me.
@Roadsterrider lol you still remember
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Roadsterrider Lol. Glad you moved forward...your little first grade heart must have been pretty scraped up.

nedkelly · 61-69, M
Only the death of my son has shattered my heart
Fertilization · 36-40, F
@nedkelly Sorry for your loss. 😞
Miklee02 · 51-55, F
@nedkelly I’m so sorry Ned 😢
romell · 51-55, M
@nedkelly thats indeed sad
RebelFox · 36-40, F
I get crushed often. I’m very sensitive and while I try not to be, it’s also my way to find out if people are abusive. If your kind and they’re mean or take advantage, then I know they suck. It always hurts a little when someone sucks, because there is good in everyone. I would rather be a lil hurt by the painful truth. You always learn, always heal if that’s what you wish to do.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@RebelFox Oh I have learned. And I am done. Tired of being lied to and used.
Breaking our hearts is part of our journey to finding a love that lasts. If we learn the lessons, maybe, just maybe, the next time would be better.

As @GJOFJ3 said, never give up on love.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@CookieCrumbs There's nothing left to give anyone else. The last one reinforced everything I've ever been told in life. Second best. Replacable. Forgettable. Easy to throw away without a backward glance. I won't give anyone else the chance to tattoo it on my forehead. So, there will bever be a next time for me. I will wish you well in your search though.
@LadyBronte
I have no words. 😔 May you find your heart’s healing in time.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@CookieCrumbs Thank you
jackson55 · M
After 25 years of marriage and a divorce it was awhile before I dated again. A younger woman found me, we’ve been together for the last 10 years.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@jackson55 You are fortunate. Good for you.
jackson55 · M
@LadyBronte Thanks.
LadyJ · F
An ex bf..broke it and i fixed it
@LadyJ You go girl!!!
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@LadyJ Good for you! You could make money if you could tell others how to do that
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I don’t do connections. People are shit. Lesson learned long ago.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@LadyBronte Once you get burned good one time it’s all over.
@Keepitsimple so true
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Keepitsimple It is very true.
Miram · 31-35, F
The only person that ever crushed my heart is my mother.

The rest was just pressing on a bleeding wound.

People are people.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Miram I'm really sorry.
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
Of course its the one’s that you put the most effort into, that hurts the most.

We reap what we sow right?

As much as I tell myself I’m never going back down that road…I can’t help but think how good it felt.
Yeah…maybe someday I’ll be able to let myself fall again…but for now I’ll just dream. It’s safer.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@LunarOrbit Hey,at least you can still dream, which means you'll probably get there one day. I have no dreams anymore. I know better than to hope, and I have no trust for anyone. I should have given up in my 40s. At least I would have still had a heart that felt something.
LunarOrbit · 56-60, M
@LadyBronte You were crushed…no doubt. I’m sorry he took the best part of you. :(
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@LunarOrbit Thanks.
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Love blooms eternal. Never give up on love ❤️
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@GJOFJ3 It actually doesn't. After enough betrayals, love doesn't bloom at all.
BlueVeins · 22-25
I learned some good things about myself and some bad things, too. I shouldn't really be in relationships, at least in the foreseeable future.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@BlueVeins Good luck.
SW-User
My heart years ago and yes fine about it now. Learned a lot about that sad experience
My trust, a couple times in these last months, it has been hard and I guess that just time.. And hopefully something positive will help. But Idk. Maybe I'll never be the same.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@SW-User I understand. I will never be the same. There's no trust for ayone. Including myself. Obviously I am a terrible judge of character.
Mergirl123 · 26-30, F
Ive been crushed and i dont wanna see anyone in my face again
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Mergirl123 Nor do I. I'll never allow anyone else close.
Beebo · M
I gave up because I wanted to. I chose the single road instead, rejected dating. Nearly 2 decades later, and I'm still single.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Beebo As long as it was your choice.
The who isn't important but it's always another woman.
Am I better? I'm in a better place but I'm not better. I have trust issues. Walls. I can't let another get that close to me again- only to be hurt again.
I've sworn off romantic connections. but i need IRL friends in my life and I need in their presence now and again.
I hurt. It's silent, solitary hurt. I can share of it but I know few can relate.
Night comes- and while I embrace it, I only have a pillow to hold through the night.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Elandra77 I understand. No one will ever touch my heart again. Trust was in short supply before, now there's none left at all for anyone. I will be a party of one forever.
Carlisle · F
Single since last October
And doing ok.
Coppercoil · M
@Carlisle you're killing it. You should never date again! Marry yourself!
Carlisle · F
@Coppercoil great
I’ll marry Albert
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Carlisle Good for you.
Good luck.
SW-User
I'm better but not ready. I kinda gave up on the whole sh*t.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@SW-User I understand. Same here. I wish you the best anyway.
sciguy18 · M
I am living the life of a recluse.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@sciguy18 I'm sorry. But I understand. I rarely go out. Have no desire to ever make any connection again.
sciguy18 · M
@LadyBronte I’ve resigned myself to the fact that some people are simply destined to be alone.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@sciguy18 I feel there are people who are destined to live without ever really knowing love. And that sucks.
FrozenWasteland · 61-69, M
In some ways, it's been crushed since my first love -- seems like a million years ago. But hearts break and heal and scar over. Sometimes many times.

I don't expect to ever fall in love again, but my heart will (hopefully) always be open to loving and being loved in whatever ways it can.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@FrozenWasteland I hope you do find someone if that's what you want..
FrozenWasteland · 61-69, M
Thank you, @LadyBronte. I'm certainly not looking for someone, but surprising things do happen in life. I'm living proof of that.
Roadsterrider · 56-60, M
Of course I remember, she shattered my little heart, I have a friend who works in a store locally, a few years ago, she came in the store where she works and recognized her, and she asked about me. She knows she missed the chance of a lifetime. LOL.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Roadsterrider Some satisfaction in that perhaps? Lol.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
An ex did. I never got over it.
I married someone else 4 years later.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@DoubleRings I hope you can settle into real happiness. I have come to the conclusion I don't need to belong. I don't need anyone. I am capable and can take care of myself. I am the only one who will show up everyday for me. The rest are liars and users. *shrug*
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
@LadyBronte You’re braver than I. Keep moving forward!
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@DoubleRings I will. Thanks. Funny what you can learn to live without when you have no choice.
SW-User
I never fell in love with anyone. I married my biggest enemy.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@SW-User Nor do I. Wisely I will never give another my trust. I have none left to give anyway.
SW-User
I’m sorry we have to be like this but men are woman hungry even if they have one they want more. Just stay happy and forget they exist . ❤️🌈❤️❤️@LadyBronte
SW-User
Sorry , I meant happy. ☀️🌈@SW-User
Coppercoil · M
I've been crushed plenty if times. I think the last feels like I'm done for. We'll see though.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Coppercoil I'm sorry, but I understand. Same here. I am so over it and so done. In fact, I'm the done-est person in Donesville. This last bastard cemented the deal on that.
Coppercoil · M
@LadyBronte i get this.. I'm on the bus to done heaven and before we get there, we are scheduled to pick up the most done person in donesville.. so maybe that's you? Then its oneard and upward to the great all done in the sky!
Well Bronte I'll forgive you and give you one more chance...😁
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@NightsWatch Yeah...I only wish it was me who'd been the cold, selfish, deceitful one.
@LadyBronte thats not true ....you would be hard pressed to be that person its not you and you really dont wish to be someone like that ...love you for you !
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@NightsWatch Thanks. But I actually do wish I was cold and heartless. Life would be easier.
Pherick · 41-45, M
It was my first GF back in college. She cheated on me. Very sad at the time, but I moved on.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Pherick Good for you being able to move on.
SW-User
Won’t say who… I think I’m better
Can’t yet speak to the rest
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@SW-User I hope you are better. Good luck!
Viper · M
An ex... I think I'm alright, as least as good as I was before.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Viper Good for you. Difficult to get back there. Someof us never do.
SW-User
I've had my heart crushed several times.

Each time, I lose hope.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@SW-User I understand. There's no hope left in me.
Knighthammer · 31-35, M
My first gf did. Years later I met my wife, almost 9 years together.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Knighthammer Good for you for being able to move on. So many never do.
TexChik · F
I have never suffered a romantic heart break.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@TexChik Then you are an anomoly. Good for you.
Bri89 · 31-35, M
I prefer my single life, at least for now.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Bri89 Good. Enjoy it!
They have gotten back at me. Never again.
ViciDraco · 36-40, M
It's been a repeated thing. I seek more connections but it's hard to trust the way I used to be able to.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@ViciDraco I have no trust left. For anyone. Ever.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Elevatorpitches Me either. Sworn off on everything from now on. *shrug* It is what it is.
@LadyBronte u dont uderstand why I answered so
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
SW-User
I crushed my own heart
Miklee02 · 51-55, F
Yeah … just mmhmm
SW-User
Ugh, I don't want to think about it :(
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@SW-User Nor do I. But it rarely leaves my mind.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Nunlover And do what? Stab the f*ck out of the bastard?
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Hinckley Same. Never again.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Dating just keeps getting worse and worse. I think I'm fine for a while
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@SkeetSkeet I will be alone forever. People suck and trust is a fool's ereand.
Bang5luts · M
Nah, I am still open, just a little more cautious about who I let in my life and I have boundaries.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Bang5luts Good for you. No one will ever get close to me again. I will be alone from now on.
Bang5luts · M
@LadyBronte that sucks. And whom ever broke your heart will probably do it several times more without a thought.
this world would be a lot better if people who caused damage to other people's lives suffered and felt the pain they inflicted.
LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@Bang5luts This. Yes.
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LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@MrBrownstone Good luck finding someone!
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LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@SW-User Good for you.
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LadyBronte · 56-60, F
@iamonfire696 Gotcha. Perhaps that's for the best.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I am sorry. I have had some online stalkers so it’s a sore subject. Thanks for the apology 💖.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@LadyBronte oh definitely. I just hope he stops this.

 
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