Well, my husband has passed, but Ill give you my honest opinion on it. I don't like it, never did like it, don't like to witness it, and I think it's totally rude! Has nothing to do with "insecurity". If I'm with someone, they're either "with" me, or not. Plain and simple. It is a matter of respect for the other person you are with. I don't go out with a man, so he can be stupid and eyeball every other woman he passes, right in front of my face. That is just plain rude. If he wants to do that, he can do that on his own time, but he won't do it on mine. If that's what he's looking for, and cannot even give his date the courtesy of concentration they deserve, then he shouldn't have gone out on that date. I don't know where Society thinks that's okay, but it's not. I could stay home and get better treatment than that, from my cat. They can't go two minutes without oogle-eyeing all the women? Come on!

He notices, which is perfectly natural. I certainly notice the men. But there is no ogling involved. He's a true gentleman and loyal to the core.

Yes. We have an open marriage. He has other sexual partners and so do I. It works for us.

some young some old. know he appreciates what he has waiting for him at home but know it won't change until he retires

He does. Nothing and no one can stop anyone from doing so.

Thanks for BA.

Well, if other women cross his line of sight, he doesn't look away, but does he stare? No.

I'm sure he looks when I'm not around, women love to flirt with him. 😐
But when he's with me he's all mine.

Sure, doesn’t bother me, I look at other people too.

I think it's weird if people don't look.

Yeah. It doesn't bother me, because I know he loves me.

Human nature. But never disrespectful. 🍑☺️🤗

He doesn’t do it around me. I’m sure he looks. I look too. It’s harmless

Idk about either of them

I’m sure he does, but he also knows how to be tactful about it. For me it’s not a jealousy thing. I consider sloppily checking out other people to be disrespectful.

Thank you. 🌷

Oh I’m sure he’s a man!! That’s something that is gonna happen.

He looks but I don't mind. I look at men and women too. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don't have neither so i don't know how will I feel at that moment.

Probably slightly jealous.

If she loves me like I would love her it doesn't really matter that much.

I'm sure my husbane does just as I do but don't know if he has other sex partners like I do.

We would be blind not to notice or see. And it’s even okay to fantasize…
But that’s as far as it should go.

She does; she actually notices women she thinks I'd like, and points them out to me! She also notices men she likes occasionally, and I'm 100% fine with that.

One partner *cannot*, ever, be everything to and for their *one* partner. I know the fairly tales all try to make us believe it, but it's completely untrue, and I refuse to buy it.

I've read your responses to others, and denying yourself a fleeting visual pleasure is pointless to me. As for the experience with your father, I feel there was something else at play there for things to have gone that far, and they probably had almost nothing to do with admiring someone from a distance for a moment.

Simple if you are with someone they better give you your dues

Sure, we both look. It shows you are still alive.

Yes, she does, and I don't feel anything about it.

this question can also be flipped: Does your partner/wife look at other men? hmm..

All men, and I assume women, look. We're married, not dead.

Depends on how they are looking at them. Just noticing something or is it creeping.

🤔...It works both ways....My wife points out women to me too.

I'm ok with my wife seeing other men we have an open marriage.

Thank goodness I have no husbands 😅

He does and he looks at porn too.

Well my dick is always blind folded and my hand watches everyone. Guess that's a good healthy relationship

Yeah she does and it turns me on