Is love an instant thing? Or it develops over time?

Like do we get to pick our partners? Or there's someone out there who's made for us

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I've really only fallen in love three times. First time took a year. Second time was virtually instantaneous. Last time took 14 years. None of them were exactly my idea. They just happened.

Loving someone is different than falling in love. To me, loving them is a daily commitment to supporting them in becoming the very best them that they can possibly be. That takes time.