Is love an instant thing? Or it develops over time?

Like do we get to pick our partners? Or there's someone out there who's made for us

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SW-User

I don't think we choose really, the idea of kismet, fate, and yes it can be instant.

Spoiledbrat · F

Some people think choosing is wiser than waiting for "love". @SW-User

Hassan · 22-25, M

@Spoiledbrat yea I've been thinking of that lately 😬 i believe it won't happen out of the blue, but ofc i keep into consideration that it might not work

SW-User

@Spoiledbrat But how much of it is actually us choosing?

SW-User

@Hassan Be open, and receptive is my suggestion :)

Spoiledbrat · F

I doubt much. When we like a person and they also make us feel loved and interesting, we tend to navigate toward each them or each other. I guess it's still a choice but we like them partly because they also like us and we like being liked. I'm sure a lot of things come into play here. @SW-User

SW-User

@Spoiledbrat True, it's at least 50% not our choice :)