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Asking for advice. It's been close to two months since she broke up with me

But I'm still in love with her. I've have tried to date other women but none compare. In my eyes she's honestly just the one. And it hurts to think that she might not feel the same. I never got to know why she broke up with me and I've sort of come to peace with the fact that I might never know.


But. It's been close to two months of no contact, but now we're somehow both on a small, 4 person organizing committee for something. And so we basically have to interact with each other to some extent. I could see her making effort to try to talk to me somehow (or maybe it was all in my head). I want her back but I don't want to chase, since she was the one who broke up with me. So I haven't made it seem like I'm desperate because I have to have some self respect, rn I probably seem uninterested.


What ways can I make her know that the door is still open if she's willing to try?
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Mamapolo2016 · F Best Comment
Inasmuch as you can - treat her like any attractive woman you were in a committee meeting with. Friendly and approachable but not mooning and all calf-eyed.

If she has any desire to come back, she'll make it clear.

That way you keep your self-respect AND keep the door open.

But if she does make a move, I would have to understand why she left in the first place before I made any decisions.