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Asking for advice. It's been close to two months since she broke up with me

But I'm still in love with her. I've have tried to date other women but none compare. In my eyes she's honestly just the one. And it hurts to think that she might not feel the same. I never got to know why she broke up with me and I've sort of come to peace with the fact that I might never know.


But. It's been close to two months of no contact, but now we're somehow both on a small, 4 person organizing committee for something. And so we basically have to interact with each other to some extent. I could see her making effort to try to talk to me somehow (or maybe it was all in my head). I want her back but I don't want to chase, since she was the one who broke up with me. So I haven't made it seem like I'm desperate because I have to have some self respect, rn I probably seem uninterested.


What ways can I make her know that the door is still open if she's willing to try?
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Ok, this may be an unpopular opinion but here it goes. Get some self respect. She left you and you still have the door open? She had her chance and ditched you. Give your presence to an individual that values it. You can be cordial with her and still move on. Also stop comparing other women to your ex, I don't imagine you'd take it too well if women compared you to their previous relationships. Enjoy them for who they are, if they fit into your life, good, if they don't, keep looking but never go back to an individual that trashed you.