Asking for advice. It's been close to two months since she broke up with me

But I'm still in love with her. I've have tried to date other women but none compare. In my eyes she's honestly just the one. And it hurts to think that she might not feel the same. I never got to know why she broke up with me and I've sort of come to peace with the fact that I might never know.

But. It's been close to two months of no contact, but now we're somehow both on a small, 4 person organizing committee for something. And so we basically have to interact with each other to some extent. I could see her making effort to try to talk to me somehow (or maybe it was all in my head). I want her back but I don't want to chase, since she was the one who broke up with me. So I haven't made it seem like I'm desperate because I have to have some self respect, rn I probably seem uninterested.

What ways can I make her know that the door is still open if she's willing to try?

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Never ever chase a woman who has dumped you.. It just makes you look more pathetic in her eyes.. If a woman dumps you just say ok and good bye and never contact her again.. She has made it clear that she thinks you're not good enough for her, that she thinks she can do better.. But you can still have some self respect and walk away..

Yeah it can hurt real bad for a time.. But time is the cure and it is quicker if you make a total break from her..