Would you marry someone who couldn't afford anything but a small rinky dink apartment?

why is it that its not dependent on my status ? When I have what I need then why would I have to shift .. and If I don't even have a small rinky dink apartment.. why would I not ?

At the end of the day .. what am I going to be ? a husband or wife ?

as the dominant is always the husband and the submissive is the wife .. and it's not the gender that would decide ..