Wow! That’s an interesting concept! Someone told me, “when we’re not looking for love even though we truly want/seek it, love finds us.”
Like we’re not looking and BAM! It happens.
I’m embarrassed to even share this online, even with strangers. Still, I’m willing to share. I’ve been attracted to physical appearance for a long time since childhood, but personality is what also gets me falling hard.
People taught me that also life and books, taught me that it’s not what is on the outside that counts but what’s on the inside. Simple yet truthful.
I’m excited to see what people say…think and feel.
I personally haven’t experienced real love as in romance yet, but I found real love.
Physical Appearance:
- hair: any color, certianly not bald (sorry)
- eyes: any color, mainly blue/green or a light shade of brown
- physique: strong, muscular but not a buff man (definitely fit)
- accessories: earrings in both ears that are diamond like a woman or man would wear but not sure if that’s a good thing to be attracted to, a simple chained necklace, and some form of mascara or natural long, big lashes. sounds like a emo/goth man but for some reason I’m sort of attracted to that type of style but not overly attracted. I know boundaries.
- dimples and/or freckles, a feature that is considered unattractive to them, but attractive to me
- taller than me
- HEALTHY
Personality/Qualities:
- fits a HUSBAND role
- is a God-fearing man, knows the Law of the Bible as well as the two most important commandments our Lord and Christ taught- Love The True God and Love Your Neighbor as Yourself
- mental: intelligent and can think, can problem solve, possibly can invent
- independent yet relies on what the other person thinks and adds to his ideas, their ideas….considers his wife’s feelings/thoughts (values her opinions) as she respects his and voices her opinion without being scolded
- kind, generous, gentle, compassionate, warm, humble
- simple and not materialistic
- has feelings and can share his innermost thoughts without feeling embarrassed but notices what to share and what not to share
- is honest and loyal, doesn’t belittle his wife nor humiliates her nor betrays her
- is honest with dealings with others & doesn’t try to hide nor steal, is generous and kind toward all, respectful toward everyone and actually listens to what people have to say including his wife
- is considerate
- likes communicating with others especially when problems arise and isn’t shy when it comes to that
- knows when to be bold but polite
- is really loving
- is good with animals and children
- knows how to cook and does laundry and does other housework activities as well as his own wife so both participate in managing a home
- is good to his family & friends and knows when not to be too friendly with his friends when it comes to females as to not be suspicious of anything
- respects and loves his wife
- loves exploring and going on mini adventures
- is curious and wants to know about things with an actual purpose of truly knowing because he is genuinely interested and wants to learn more, perhaps even share his findings with others
- has any kind of talent but doesn’t exploit others nor want to gain popularity because of it
- down to Earth
- knows how to handle things because of experience or training(s)
- shares similar interests but has his own unique interests
- can be funny with some jokes but is intelligent enough to add them to where it is necessary and doesn’t overdo them
- not lazy at all
- IS RESPONSIBLE
Sidenote; I’m aware of no man being perfect except Christ, our Messiah, but there are a lot of good people out there that seem to have perfect qualities and the sort…but that’s because they learned how to be that way through experience and by reading the Bible. It’s life. Humans aren’t perfect because we all fall short and make mistakes, but know this, we can still practice doing good and can live a happy life, only if we can find true happiness by living up to God’s standards. John 3:16
Okay, it’s looking deeper than skin. I personally find lighter skin tones more attractive, but I can be friends with any person with any skin tone. They need to be nice and friendly, first.
