So I watched a movie called "Weird Science" this morning and basically two boys create their perfect women, so it gave me a idea for a thread. If you could create your perfect partner who would he or she be like appearance wise and personality?
I think my perfect partner would be kind, protective but not in a jealous way, funny, likes to spend weekends snuggled up on the lounge just watching movies and talking but every so often likes to go out and do something fun. Also gentle but can be a little rough and last of all accepts me for me and doesn't ever try to change me.
Appearance wise i would go either
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what about yourselves or have you already found your perfect partner and if so, what makes them perfect to you?
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@LilPrincess People are obviously not perfect and flawed but its just for fun to imagine the perfect partner that you could come up with. Not a lying cheating good for nothing bastard sounds pretty good to me though
@LilPrincess I am sorry to hear that your perfect turned out to be a lie. Really crappy thing to have to go through 🤗 I truly hope you end up finding someone that matches your description you just posted though
No no no.. no apologies necessary. I didn't realize you're upset right now. I can understand how you can be though. Worthless to your definition means he doesn't work? Something else? Please know, I'm not trying to pick anything with you? You don't sound ridiculous..@LilPrincess
@LilPrincess she hid it well. And for the first little while I think it was genuine. Then my sisters started seeing it. When we split, my sister told me what she saw.
@JackJames he always had an explanation and apology for all my suspicions. I tried forgiveness but this last time I learned I wasn't Jesus and I don't have alzheimer's
@Elisbch no he was one of the biggest liars I ever met. Even continued to lie up until I sent him 27 screen shots of his conversation because he thought he was talking to a complete stranger
@LilPrincess that’s the worst. She tried to use me in her lie. And what I mean is, I had an email simply for junk mail. She knew about the email and had the password. I didn’t hide it. One day I came home and there was a note saying she hated me for what I did. I was confused. Then I went on the computer. In that email was a bunch of emails that looked like I was cheating. Problem was I was literally working in a kitchen for half of them and actually with her for the rest. Then I found out she used a friend to do things on that account to justify cheating on me.
@JackJames that is horrible. I just don't understand how people do what they do. He tried sending a gift to my son using my kids as a way to get me back but they despise him as much as I do
Getting your eyes opened that way would be devastating..imho.. you were the one that tripped him up. I'm kind of speechless? Very hard times. To say the least. May I ask, how many years you had vested in this relationship? @LilPrincess
Doesn't make you feel any better .... but better to find out earlier than later? If he's doing these things early in your relationship, that's who he is. I would bet habitual. @LilPrincess
