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PhoenixPhail 路 M
InvisibleGirl 路 18-21, F
@PhoenixPhail I hope you can be with that person! 鈽猴笍
PhoenixPhail 路 M
@InvisibleGirl Thank you so much. 馃槜
InvisibleGirl 路 18-21, F
@PhoenixPhail You鈥檙e welcome! You should go find him/her (if you know who that person is). It could be your grand adventure! Just like me trying to figure out how to make Thanksgiving happen with James. 鈽猴笍
PhoenixPhail 路 M
@InvisibleGirl I would LOVE to find her. My [i]true[/i] grand adventure, is finding ME. But, maybe in the process of finding myself, I'll find a girl who's finding HERself, and we'll get together that way.
InvisibleGirl 路 18-21, F
@PhoenixPhail That鈥檚 so sweet! I wish you the best of luck! 鉂わ笍
PhoenixPhail 路 M
@InvisibleGirl Thanks. I hope it happens soon. x
InvisibleGirl 路 18-21, F
@PhoenixPhail I鈥檓 sure it will, you have to allow it to happen. 鈽猴笍
PhoenixPhail 路 M
@InvisibleGirl I'm allowing as much as I know how without surrendering my integrity. I guess I'm a little different, diving deeply into my shadow self, seeing the truth of who I really am. My would-be partner would be one who resonates with that, if not doing that, herself.
InvisibleGirl 路 18-21, F
@PhoenixPhail Maybe she鈥檚 just around the corner or something. I鈥檓 so happy for you to have that happiness. Don鈥檛 compromise your beliefs, but also don鈥檛 write people off because they aren鈥檛 exactly who you think you want. Maybe you鈥檒l be surprised and love someone who you didn鈥檛 expect to. That鈥檚 what happened with me and James. 鈽猴笍
PhoenixPhail 路 M
@InvisibleGirl Oh, I'm careful not to write people off. I do have a tendency to look for a custom fit in an off-the-rack world. But the things which are really important to me in relationship, really NEED to be in place. The details aren't nearly as important as the big picture. x
InvisibleGirl 路 18-21, F
@PhoenixPhail That鈥檚 good, don鈥檛 stop searching. If you really think you like someone, don鈥檛 let them go. It鈥檚 worth it. And make sure to let them know, in case they feel the same way - don鈥檛 be afraid of them not feeling the same way. 鈽猴笍
PhoenixPhail 路 M
@InvisibleGirl You can be [i]sure[/i] I'll let them know, whether they feel the same way or not. I don't know of any other way to find out.
I'm not afraid to show people my truth, I just have to be prudent and diplomatic with how I do that. But, if the a relationship isn't based on truth, it's all in vain.
I'm not afraid to show people my truth, I just have to be prudent and diplomatic with how I do that. But, if the a relationship isn't based on truth, it's all in vain.