39 days, and still can't deny that I miss her...
I shouldn't have let her go 💔
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SteelHands · 61-69, M
Woman gets emotionally attached, very little physical addiction. When it starts wearing thin she starts wondering why and starts testing if it's her or him.
So by looking for someone else to become attached emotionally to she ends up cheating.
The guilt gets to her so she starts acting really good to him and he reacts by getting in way deeper emotionally than is realistic.
Her reaction to his reaction is that he's desperate for her and that turns her against him and she starts acting badly.
Then he either finds out she cheated. Maybe not. Maybe he just kicks her out of his life thinking she'll straighten herself out.
But she already had someone and that's what every guy ought to figure out because nobody gets in a relationship so fast as someone who feels like the other person caused it.
Logic. It's good having it. Way better than thinking with feelings.
So by looking for someone else to become attached emotionally to she ends up cheating.
The guilt gets to her so she starts acting really good to him and he reacts by getting in way deeper emotionally than is realistic.
Her reaction to his reaction is that he's desperate for her and that turns her against him and she starts acting badly.
Then he either finds out she cheated. Maybe not. Maybe he just kicks her out of his life thinking she'll straighten herself out.
But she already had someone and that's what every guy ought to figure out because nobody gets in a relationship so fast as someone who feels like the other person caused it.
Logic. It's good having it. Way better than thinking with feelings.