39 days, and still can't deny that I miss her...
I shouldn't have let her go 馃挃
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SteelHands 路 61-69, M
Woman gets emotionally attached, very little physical addiction. When it starts wearing thin she starts wondering why and starts testing if it's her or him.
So by looking for someone else to become attached emotionally to she ends up cheating.
The guilt gets to her so she starts acting really good to him and he reacts by getting in way deeper emotionally than is realistic.
Her reaction to his reaction is that he's desperate for her and that turns her against him and she starts acting badly.
Then he either finds out she cheated. Maybe not. Maybe he just kicks her out of his life thinking she'll straighten herself out.
But she already had someone and that's what every guy ought to figure out because nobody gets in a relationship so fast as someone who feels like the other person caused it.
Logic. It's good having it. Way better than thinking with feelings.
So by looking for someone else to become attached emotionally to she ends up cheating.
The guilt gets to her so she starts acting really good to him and he reacts by getting in way deeper emotionally than is realistic.
Her reaction to his reaction is that he's desperate for her and that turns her against him and she starts acting badly.
Then he either finds out she cheated. Maybe not. Maybe he just kicks her out of his life thinking she'll straighten herself out.
But she already had someone and that's what every guy ought to figure out because nobody gets in a relationship so fast as someone who feels like the other person caused it.
Logic. It's good having it. Way better than thinking with feelings.
Elessar 路 26-30, M
Man, that feel won't get any better after 39 days, and if she's decided to go it's not that you could do anything about it, no matter how much you would blame yourself. Then I don't know the specific situation, but in general this is the general rule. Give yourself time, don't rethink over and over decisions you've already taken.
@Elessar My decision was to wait, for 3 years, until I'd have graduated and found a job to make a living. Just to find out 3 weeks before my contract being renewed that she dated someone else before I was to even find that job. I mean would she seriously have wanted to be with someone who aborted his graduation just to be with her?
SteelHands 路 61-69, M
About a year or so you'll be good as new.
Not her. She'll be consumed with trust issues forever.
Not her. She'll be consumed with trust issues forever.
Lilnonames 路 F