I ended up having a lengthy discussion with a man yesterday. Today he has professed his love , said he doesn't want to lose me and would do anything to remain in my life. Tears were shed (on his part)...it was a lot.
And as strange as it may sound it's really kinda common.... Like it has happened enough that I see it coming sometimes.
Isn't that strange though? Like...I just want to develop a friendship for more than a few weeks before things escalate to marriage proposals. This kind of intensity is now on my list of red flags.
@MizzO Oh he is hella weird. You need to distance yourself from him. That is a major red flag. I once dated this guy, and when I tried to break up with him he would threaten to kill himself. He guilted me to stay with him for years.
@Punches it was a chat line. And I agree... It's like the bar has come into everyone's home smh. Im new to my area and thought it would be a good way to be social even though I don't know anyone. I was soooooo wrong