Another question I need women's honest opinions on

I read something on reddit. It said that women would wonder what is wrong with a guy if he commits early. Like, start thinking they're the only one that wants him and he doesn't have any other options. And then that makes her start thinking he's undesirable, and looking for reasons why other women are not interested in him. Is that just a generalization or is it somewhat true? I mean I guess I'm still inexperienced to some extent, but if this is true then it sort of explains perfectly why my last relationship ended. But idk. Would you see it as a yellow/red flag if I guy was ready to be exclusive early on?

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Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

Its both true & not true.

Its also a extremely good filter for men who are serious about wanting a committed relationship & not having their time wasted.

If you are getting to know a young women and she appears to shy away from the suggestion of commitment with you. She is likely toying with you & not seriously considering you at all. This would be your cue to be cautious.

On the other hand if shes all in keen to go steady & commit.
Shes likely the one for you, because she has shown she has no doubts.