Another question I need women's honest opinions on

I read something on reddit. It said that women would wonder what is wrong with a guy if he commits early. Like, start thinking they're the only one that wants him and he doesn't have any other options. And then that makes her start thinking he's undesirable, and looking for reasons why other women are not interested in him. Is that just a generalization or is it somewhat true? I mean I guess I'm still inexperienced to some extent, but if this is true then it sort of explains perfectly why my last relationship ended. But idk. Would you see it as a yellow/red flag if I guy was ready to be exclusive early on?

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Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

Its both true & not true.

Its also a extremely good filter for men who are serious about wanting a committed relationship & not having their time wasted.

If you are getting to know a young women and she appears to shy away from the suggestion of commitment with you. She is likely toying with you & not seriously considering you at all. This would be your cue to be cautious.

On the other hand if shes all in keen to go steady & commit.
Shes likely the one for you, because she has shown she has no doubts.

DIABLISS

It depends on the guy. if she is really into the guy, she will put up with alot. in How i met your Mother...Ted tells his date he loves her the first night. They don't end up together until the end of the show. And that is petty true of most women.

Make sure you are always having a great time together. Enjoy yourself and quit worrying about that stuff. if she pulls the ol' "where is this going?" routine...just be honest.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

How early? Like in the first sentence?

somedude15 · 22-25, M

@KuroNeko not first sentence lmao, idk like maybe after having sex for the first time.

KuroNeko · 41-45, F

@somedude15 that's not really a measure of time either. Could be days, could be weeks...

somedude15 · 22-25, M

@KuroNeko say after two weeks of talking on a dating app and two weeks after the first in person date

PrettyFlamingos · F

Yes, works the same way with men too if woman commits too soon

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

I wouldn’t think he’s undesirable to other women. I would think he might have relationship issues with his love bombing (within the first few months for me) Some women like that. I don’t like that. I think it can be a warning sign that he’s not stable

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