Long distance relationship

This guy tells me he loves me etc and we have even discussed marriage. Off late there has been a dip in communication because he is too busy and he says he can’t help it when he is tired and falls asleep.
All I ask of him is to call me once a day and even if it’s just for a short span of time. Not too much to ask is it?
Ive been having a bad feeling in my gut about him. Off late I’ve been putting a lot of effort and despite me asking him to just call once a day he does not heed to my need.
Is it worth pursuing such a man or should I just back off and retreat into my shell?

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SW-User

That's sad. If someone claims to love another, a little time shouldn't be something they don't feel the need for.
You may be in for a lot of heartache if you stick with someone who doesn't find you worth calling once a day...to spend a bit of time with.
I often wonder how these people would treat others if they were together in the same home... ignore on days they don't feel like bothering?
In my way of thinking, nobody should have to beg someone to spend a bit of time with them....especially when they claim to care.

solitaire · 41-45, F

Totally agree @SW-User