What is your story??

I was married and divorced twice chasing the idea that i wanted to be in a relationship to fix my less than favorable self-worth and fear of being alone. I also chased that same theme to a third failed relationship but found a great friendship that now has me 1000 miles away from my family and constantly battling two worlds. One world where i feel good about where i am but always feeling guilty about not being with my family. (No kids just a parent, sibling, and close cousins). Lost parent while i was away which was a horrible way to be woken up with but one i prepared for by dreading everyday the possibility.

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Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F

You are so right to recognise that we all have stories, often not particularly happy ones. And, as you show, we often also keep making the same mistake, repeating patterns that are never going to work out.. usually we choose the same kind of person that's not good for us..

Patterns repeat until we are ready to learn the lessons..

It seems like you are now evaluating and that brings learning and perhaps you've broken that repeat cycle now

iamnikki · 31-35, F

Riddler with anxiety, finally achieved a career change, no close familial relationships. A significant other would be great at this point

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