Daily crush update

He texts me at 1 am in the night saying he was drunk and out with friends. At 4 am he texts me saying he just returned home.
I don't understand how he can seem so cheerful about it.
Today he was joking about how he wanted a whiskey treat from a colleague.
I like to see his face all lit up and happy, but there is a deep gnawing sadness inside me which grows every time he talks of weed, alcohol or smoking.

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MissMollyCharlotte0702

He is into drinking, smoking, and weed. If these things are not appealing to you then you should not date him and he will not change what he is doing because he enjoys it. You are better off finding someone who enjoys the things that you do.

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@MissMollyCharlotte0702 that's the truth. Anyway, in a month I leave my job, so the distance night make the attachment fade away :)

MissMollyCharlotte0702

Take it from me. I had those same feelings about a guy who loved to drink, smoke, and smoke weed and I thought he would change if he understood it wasn’t something I liked doing all of the time. We dated a while and he became angry and abusive. Not saying this guy will, but he was never willing to change and actually turned out to be an alcoholic.
Move on if you don’t feel good about his drinking. @Heretodaygonetomorrow

sspec

@Heretodaygonetomorrow 🙂