Daily crush update

He texts me at 1 am in the night saying he was drunk and out with friends. At 4 am he texts me saying he just returned home.
I don't understand how he can seem so cheerful about it.
Today he was joking about how he wanted a whiskey treat from a colleague.
I like to see his face all lit up and happy, but there is a deep gnawing sadness inside me which grows every time he talks of weed, alcohol or smoking.

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sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M

A source of incompatibility between you, perhaps? I think you sound pretty close if he thinks it's ok to message at such later hours, drunk or not.

Heretodaygonetomorrow · 26-30, F

@sometimeslonelytoo yeah... I don't mind texting him at any hour... but yeah, incompatibility in this regard is one of the main reasons I want to wait it out and not act based on mutual attraction.

sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M

@Heretodaygonetomorrow Sounds sensible to me in that respect. Good thinking.