When someone shows themself

To be different to who you thought they were, I used to think people would ignore it because they were fixated on love which can be blind. But maybe it’s an ego thing too, and being unable to admit you were completely wrong about someone

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CookieCrumbs · F

I dont think love is totally blind.

We see people show their true colors, but there is this part of us that is hoping we are not seeing clearly. We want to be wrong in what we are seeing. We hope they will change - for us. That’s a big mistake.

antonioioio · 70-79, M

@CookieCrumbs wise women ❤️

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@CookieCrumbs I thought my ex would “grow up” by the time he got in his early 30’s and it seemed he got even more self-centered by then. I had heard of couples who had a rough patch early on in their marriages and things calmed down and worked out later on.