Do right by yourself, take the road which will give you piece of mind in the future. Be careful not to mistake satisfaction for happiness or doing right in general for doing right by someone's expectation of you.

First off decide if you can live with the change.
I took a couple years for my wife to agree to an open marriage on her part but now she likes it very much as long as I dont stray.

It takes a lot of thinking and countless debates before i do decide which way to go. Thanks @Solipsism :)

Yes I'm quite sure i can live with the change. I'm just waiting for the perfect time @Snoopy40

You are very wise @Lyrik :)
No I'm not giving up, I'm just putting it on hold for a couple of years.

@ph I see what you mean about some of the stuff you get!

Haha yeah @Stefanv! 😝

Dont wait to long.

sorry that is one of my wifes fantasies.

It sure is coming 👊 @Duterte

Hey @enag19

you be the change

Hey Purplehaze :)

How are you purple?

Imagin being stripped nude and being blind folded then led into a room where you can hear several guys talking softly and their coos of apreaction at your body.
Then being helped onto the bed and have your wrists tied securly to the head board and your legs pulled wide apart and secured to the foot of the bed then you feel mens hands exploreing your helpless body with their fingers violating your vunerable pussy and men taking turns sucking on your breasts until one guy mounts you and begins to thrust inside of you until he cums then all of the other guys do the same until you lay there helplessly as they violate your body with their seed leaking down the crack of your ass puddeling on the bed..

Ok that would scare the sh!t out of me @Snoopy40! I would also probably loose my sanity and turn suicidal after. That's not the change I would want.