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I think I just got catfished to a whole new level! I mean I've heard of guys pretending to be girls and everything but I just had a white boy pretend to be a black man in my inbox! I caught him out thought and got him to admit the truth so proud of myself for that :)
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In view of the fact that blacks are routinely discriminated against---paid less---given less opportunities--why would anyone with privilege wish to convince anyone else they are a level lower in society than they are? Most try to brag--"up". Don't get it.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@anythingoes477 Ahem.. it's well known that a lot of white women LIKE black men in the bedroom.... they are well known for tending to be well-endowed and quite dominant..
@Adaydreambeliever I guess it's a matter of priorities. I get big dicks--I've had several black guys ask me to do their wives while they watched---but to me a big dick is the least thing a woman should look for in life. Black men tend to be the least willing to marry--statistically of any race (and you can look that up). Blacks tend to have the least interest in committing to a two parent family unit. They tend to be paid less--have higher dropout rates for schooling--meaning less success in life to provide for kids and a woman. Not being racist---all of this is things the black community admits to and ultimately blames on discrimination. So if the claims are correct and discrimination is causing those things---and discrimination does exist---then I'm not wrong. They DO get paid less, have less opportunities to provide for a family, etc. So financially women and the kids from a mixed relationship have a far less secure future.

Which was the point of my comment. When you can have a big dick (if you are simply selective)---and more for yourself and any kids that result-----why want a big dick and less?
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@anythingoes477 wellll you make some interesting observations.. but actually I didn't say that it was ONLY their dicks... now did I? Re the liking watching their wives being forked.. lots of white men do too, I am not sure if it is any more prevalent in black men, but there is a tendency to be dominant.. and it really isn't confined to the size of their appendage.. the saying, 'once you have had black you will never go back' must have some value to it - and that was what I was referring to, not just the size of their male parts.. as not all have that big, but where they are they do tend to be very big.. I didn't ever say women chose them ONLY for that tho..

And while I do see where you are trying to come from, my point that a man, on a site like this, MAY WELL wish to pretend he is black, to cash in on the sexual reputation of black men BECAUSE they feel they may have an increased chance of sexual favours.. which WAS probably the motivation.. it's not like he was offering to marry anyone or that that was expected.. We don't want to marry everyone we flirt with, send pics to or play online with, or even have sex with :P Let alone want children with them :P

Aside from that I wouldn't EVER like to engage in generalisations about black men from a social or marriage perspective. And I would say that in actual fact the research shows that in terms of being paid less, dropping out of school etc.. there is MUCH to support that this happens as a result of discrimination... soo..

But anyway.. the point here was that men might want to pose as black, they aren't offering to marry and the recipients in this context are probably NOT really looking to marry them :P
Bless2018 · 41-45, M
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@Adaydreambeliever All good points. I was just sayin'........devil's advocate kind of thing.
Adaydreambeliever · 56-60, F
@anythingoes477 and I was doing a similar thing..