I Have Something to Say

[b]Friendship on SW?[/b]

I have met some great people on this place and I don't really believe that SW is full of idiots (or insolent peasants as I have called you many times before). But...to the "witty" males that have tried to befriend me...all of you with your poetry and eclectic music taste and long conversations about life and what's real and what's not...I do admire your mind. And talking to me about how you admired mine was definitely flattering. But did my mind stop being "admirable" once you realised I didn't want to be more "intimate"? Why spend hours talking to this "special friend" of yours if she's not that special after all? Or even a friend...? I hate it when people make me feel so special only to find out that they've been trying to get something from me and then watch them leave, complimenting and worshipping their new "victim". If friendship is not what you're really looking for then, please, take all your beautiful lies and leave. Why do I have to go through periods of anger and self - doubt just because you're not strong enough to be clear about what you really want and who you really are? And I know that I "shouldn't care about strangers on the internet" and I should probably "go get a life" but I find it stupid to pretend I don't care when I clearly spend most of my time on here.

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Crazytxtink · 51-55, F

It's nice too see someone else feels this way..

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@Crazytxtink: Unfortunately,we're not the only ones...😞

Crazytxtink · 51-55, F

@IDidNotFart: I know but at least someone wrote something that's real to some of us. Sad but truthful

I would also like to add.... I think most of us struggle with real life.. And sometimes we look for comfort of others on a social site.. I see nothing wrong with it. Unless you have asshole trolls who only use sites like these to abuse others I have found some pretty amazing people online. And there the ones who only use people sadly that what I find.. I do believe you can also form a close bond with someone you have never meet. Maybe that the romantic in me. Speaking. Also I'm not a attention seeker. Yet people think I am. Some are so quick to judge others.
When I made my first comment I just meant I like knowing someone spoke there honesty.. I enjoy meeting other like minded people. Who aren't afraid too show there true self. Instead of being a bully or a use people too get something.