@dreamstreetstan- my kids are 6 & 10
They weren't broken condoms, they were desired & if you bothered to read my responses at all you'd probably figure out a thing or two about what im talking about.
Not that I have to justify myself to you but I will tell you this because now you are obsessed with me that you had to go and make so many follow up posts about it.
I was 18 when I had my son, I had already been declared an adult and living independently for 2 years from the time I was 16.
Paying my own bills and rent working 2 jobs and going to school. Why? Because my mother is a narcissist and her husband is a few notches shy of being a pedophile.
When I got pregnant: According to my doctors (OB) my chances of conceiving naturally were 10% when I found myself in a stable relationship I and my partner decided we would be ok if by sheer luck I could get pregnant. There was no broken condom, no failed birth control, not a drunken mistake. Seeing as the doctors had already told me I'd need Clomid to get pregnant in the first place due to a condition I have. I wasn't menstruating normally sometimes not at all. I dropped maybe 1 egg a year from the time I was 14. That 1 egg was what kept me from being diagnose completely infertile.
When I did get pregnant it wasn't easy, it was 27 weeks of bed rest.
I was a grown adult long before I got pregnant.
When I had my second at 22 I was dealing with another health concern. Doctors said they found the first signs of cervical cancer and they monitored it for 8 months the cells kept growing my OB said if I wanted to be able to carry my own child myself I should try then and there becuase if the cancer grew I wouldn't be able to carry a pregnancy to term let alone get pregnant at all, no cervix means no way to keep a baby inside.
And now well now I will swear
You don't know who the fuck I am or what I've been through, yet you sit here passing judgement on me thinking that I feel I know it all becuase I had a broken condom. Well no that's not why I know it all, experience is a lot but so is doing the research and taking the classes to learn about what you are interested in. I have a lot to learn, I'm not done learning and I'll be damned if my being well read and having experience makes you feel like you are inferior to me.
Being a mother has been the most important role in my life. Not Becuase I don't have aspirations, becuase I do, I hold down a job, I parent 2 kids, help my husband run a successful business, have dealt with serious health issues in the past and still am. It's important to me becuase I was told it might never happen for me.
My life isn't about fucking the next dude around the corner. I'm not out running about tossing my kids to the side. Get a fucking life, this isn't an episode of teen moms. I am not Farrah Abrahams.
