I Have Something to Say

The one thing that rings louder and brighter, once the fog of heartache starts to dissipate - is how much the other person really didn't care about you, the whole you. When it's about them. Always about them.
You will know that when the little things are forgotten - like your birthday.

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Magenta · F

And/or that you loved and they only lusted.

SW-User

Yes! Oh, my stupid heart...

Magenta · F

Ugh. A loving heart is stubborn, maybe not stupid.

Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M

@CharmedHeart: @Magenta: putting your whole heart out there seems like stupidity, but in the end it's the only right way to be. At least you know you gave it your all.

SW-User

He had my best, that is true. But those days are over.

Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M

@CharmedHeart: yes. There comes a time..... 🤗

Magenta · F

@Amb...It's not I just put my whole heart out there per se. It happens over time. Before you know it, you're all in! We grow into it and it takes time to grow out of it. 😔

Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M

@Magenta: of course!!! I think most of us are kind or like that. Tentative at first. Vulnerable. Unwilling to lay it all out there at once. That's just being smart. Trust is gained over time. Our vulnerability has to be earned. Then sadly, sometimes it is lost. And sometimes that loss is sudden and most times it's as you say - slowly eroding over time. 💋

Magenta · F

Precisely. 😘

Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M

@Magenta: @CharmedHeart: looks at two of the prettiest ladies in his circle and wonders how men could be so stupid to not treat you two like gold.... 😍😍