Because it gives you clarity and choice. You see patterns. Who gives, who doesn't, what's fair and not fair. You understand what's actually happening and that matters.
Yes but if they pick up your children from school do you pay them for the effort especially considering the price of gas these days? Or do you just consider that their duty to you? Especially if they are maybe retired or on a fixed income? 😒
@GoFish they are only 10mins away from school and we buy food for everyone because they don't feed them. That is not their duty. Wish they did it because they like to see the girls like other grandparents with their grandchildren.
