My brother-in-law told us..

"If I find a new partner now that I divorced, I would tell no one. Not a single soul because it's no one's business." Then he told his mom that he found someone so his mom slipped and told us.

It got me thinking..why should we care if he has a new girlfriend? What's it to us? It would just mean he was able to move on. Not like there will be paparazzi chasing them.