I have something to say.

It was wrong to say that I am Allowing my stepfather to have control because I forgave him for what he did to me over 35 years ago. I have a forgiving heart and it hurts that I am judged for being forgiving. How dare a person use delicate information like that against me . How dare they disclose whet I told them and gossip about me to his female friend. And this is love ???