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Not the best week..

My husband found out yesterday that his dear friend from highschool took his own life.


From what we gather in the process of divorce there was a meeting about custody of the kids. We fear she was threatening to take the girls away from him.



This is wrong and parents who do this to the other parent are awful humans.


Don't use kids as pawns.

Unless the other parent is hurting the children there is no reason or excuse for this shit. My husband is devastated.
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F Pinned Comment
Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and words.

I wish I could time travel and stop bad things before they happen....I just don't have the right words today. I am worried about my husband and his state of mind.

I can't stop thinking about his children, their other friends and his mother..this is not the first death. Not so long ago they lost another from the group and families to cancer....it is just so hard to grow up qnd come to terms with the favt that you start losing people to mpre than natural causes. 🥺❤

I appreciate you all.

Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
You’re right, that alienation shit HAS GOT to end! I’m sad for your husband losing a friend and especially on such malicious, unnecessary circumstances. I hope she feels so much shame for the rest of her life.
What is it about this week…like I’ve been hearing about divorces (in my friends circle) almost every day…🥺

Yes, the kids always end up losing the most in any divorce case…sadly, their damage runs deeper than the surface. Also, your post reminded me of that man who killed his 3 daughters only coz he didn’t want his wife to get their full custody. 😖
Northwest · M
Based on my own experience and that of several friends, attorneys, in search of billable hours, create walls between the parties.

Kids should never be used as pawns.
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
This happens all too often. I've been one of the kids in this situation, and this is part of why I fear marriage or having kids. I'm so sorry.
Harmonium1923 · 51-55, M
I’m so sorry. What a tragedy.
HeavenBesideYou · 56-60, F
This is so sad, and it’s so wrong to use children to hurt another person. Big hugs to your family, and theirs, Pill.
I’m so sorry. And I agree with you. I also can’t even imagine how those kids are eventually going to see their mother for being a party to that (because children aren’t stupid). 😞
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
@bijouxbroussard Yes, it will be a hard road for them.
I am so sorry. 🖤🤗
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
My condolences.
I agree wholeheartedly, if there’s abuse happening the authorities will dictate who has the kids. This threatening has to stop!!
Rutterman · 46-50, M
That's awful. I am so sorry this happened. My condolences to the man's children, your husband, and all who cared about him.

 
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