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OogieBoogie · F
Well ....YEAH .
that's kind how it works in RL too.
If i spoke out in the middle of the street and said ..."my dad hates me and i got no job" ( or some such) , who would give a shit ?
Who'd care?
You can't expect everyone to drop their emotional baggage and problems to take on yours.
You gotta take the time to get to know people. Put in effort .
These 'popular' people you speak of have prolly been here for years, helped others along the way .
They EARNED their support .
You want it ?
You gotta earn it, like everybody else🤷♀️
And "reciprocated" kinda means 'get what you give '.
So ......maybe think about what you give out, before you complain about what you expect from others.
that's kind how it works in RL too.
If i spoke out in the middle of the street and said ..."my dad hates me and i got no job" ( or some such) , who would give a shit ?
Who'd care?
You can't expect everyone to drop their emotional baggage and problems to take on yours.
You gotta take the time to get to know people. Put in effort .
These 'popular' people you speak of have prolly been here for years, helped others along the way .
They EARNED their support .
You want it ?
You gotta earn it, like everybody else🤷♀️
And "reciprocated" kinda means 'get what you give '.
So ......maybe think about what you give out, before you complain about what you expect from others.