I Have Something to Say

I am so irritated right now. I am not perfect, I do things i am not happy about. But i am trying to be a better person. I am irritated by something that is irritating to me. How can a father go out in the night to see a woman and come back in the morning to telling children the importance of prayer and actually has the mind to pray? You go out to see a woman that is not the mother of your children and you come back to the house to emphasis on praying to GOD.Like what you do is part of been a good person? What kind of stupidity is that? Like is what he did good or am I saying something stupid? Please, fathers, mothers, and anybody at all, i'd like your view or opinion on this please. Do you think what he does is good?

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Picklebobble · 56-60, M

People who behave badly then hide behind their faith afterward are probably worthy of your contempt.
However. There are two issues that need sorting out.
One is why. Why is he going off in the first place ? And the second is why is his wife daft enough to put up with it ?
If he knows he can do it with impugnity, why would he stop ?

RoyX54 · 36-40, M

I think I understand what you mean. But listen to this. I am his so called son. when I was younger, i wasn't always at home because was in a boarding school and even when I started university, it wasn't located in the same state. when I came back to the house, my brother would tell me of him giving cheques to girls. I see empty wraps of Viagra. My mom is not alive. She passed on in 2008. I even use to hear this issue with girls for a long time. This is not because of my mom, because even then I heard the rubbish he use to do. My mom before she died, told me 'don't be like your father'. Is there some other reason that is good for me to actually see that such an act of his is good? Because there's no good reason to me. Good can never be combined with what is wrong to live a balanced life.

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Picklebobble · 56-60, M

I'm sorry you lost your mother.
That's sad for you. Your brother, and probably him too to be fair.
Well, I guess if somebody's behaviour is incomprehensible. All you can do is ask them about it !
But be careful if you do. Doubtless he might get very defensive over it.

RoyX54 · 36-40, M

ok. I don't know if i'm misinterpreting something I read but my brother's not dead. His alive. Thank you for your view. I appreciate.